<is> LESS IS MORE

Fact is...the less drama you keep in your life...the more happiness within yourself you will find. I've always been positive, outgoing and will give my last to someone in need. I'm not perfect as no one will ever be...but God knows I try to live the best I can as my parents have always taught me. Over the last couple of months, I've peeped who to trust/rely on, which is why I keep my circle small...something I'll continue to do, but I will never change who I am, because of another's thoughts of me...especially if they don't know me personally. I will continue to give my best and be a resource/mentor to those in need...I can give the answer to those inquiring as I've been through a lot in my lifetime...as I've never liked to see failure, but only the best for all. Lastly, always smile, no matter what...you will find those who you think are close that turn their backs on you without knowing the 5 W's of a situation/issue...especially when you need them the most. Live your life full of happiness and never subject yourself to be the end game of others. Love is life...and life...is living. #godbless #issachayes #walkonby #osmosisthoughtz #livelaughlove #doyou  #cantpleaseeveryone #lessismore #staywoke

SOCIAL MEDIA IS THE DEVIL

Had to take some time from a few social media sites for a bit as a lot of negativity surfaces these days. I'm not sure if these negative influences are real people/bots, but its hella annoying to see the mass confusion/caous when the only thing I'm there for is to keep up with family and friends. It's a bit bananas and easy to get sucked into an intoxicating environment, comment, like or post about an election that happened almost 2 years ago or the ongoing WH reality tv stuff happening (sighhhh) or a question, which is starting to annoy me: "who eats first ( or gets their plate first), the husband or the kids" (oh my goodness...that post is so freaking annoying)😑...for the negativity to begin. During my tenure away from a site, I've actually thought of becoming a ghost and if folks need to reach me...then they could do so by phone/email...ya know, like the good old days. 😂 I guess the real reason I keep it is to catch up with the latest on people I know as their lives change over the years. I guess I'll see how I feel soon...as I kinda like being incognito and the fact that folks wonder...what's he doing next. #osmosisthoughtz

LYING ISN'T EASY

So, I know a guy...whose a narcissist. Constantly lies about any of the 5 Ws (who, what, when, where or why 👈🏿😏 in case you're not following) to make himself look good. I've known this guy to be a habitual liar and whatever you've got...that he doesn't...he will find a way to one up you to look good as far as image. Running into him yesterday, he announces that he's up for a promotion with his made up job (give him credit, he actually worked for about 6 good months, before they let him go...what he doesn't know is that a lot of us know that the company cut ties with him) and that he is pursuing his Doctorates (going to school full time)...question is...how do you get a Doctrates without a Bachelor's and Masters?!?! Bro, quit lying!!!! We all know the truth, but we gas him up with head nods and smirks. Folks, we have to do better...why do we feel that a social status is needed to make us official? I believe in the concept of working hard...not lying or unable to present proof if asked for a receipt. Status without work equates nothing, but trouble...and if looking to be celebrated for nothing...that's shameful and wrong. I wish him success in his journey to find himself and pray that he really looks to find out who he is and refrain from the path he's going or...it's really going to hurt him later. I'm always about seeing one succeed...never have liked people getting over. #osmosisthoughtz

LAUNDROMAT DAYDREAMING

Today, had a childhood experience going to the laundromat. It's funny how the smallest things bring back memories of our childhood. I remember my parents using all the change scrapped together to wash as my brothers and I ran around the place like crazy...getting into the push baskets as mom fussed at us...and begging for change to play Pacman/Ms. Pacman. Difference now is there was no video games, no change machines as there is wifi and cards (hella expensive) used to insert into the washers and dryers. What ever happened to the good old days?!?! Those were the days of our lives...drama free with autonomy! No bills...carefree...just kids running through the laundromat.

FACTS & OPINIONS

The world has really changed over the years...or has it always been more opinionated suggestions taken before true facts substantiated. When we look at politics, religion and even something as entertaining as LeBron James or other sports free agents joining teams rather than the fanbase opinion...it seems to start an all out war of words, hate/disparaging comments. I mean, we are all entitled to our own opinions...but honestly...it seems as if opinions are what we live by to fuel thought rather than the art of facts?!?! As I am writing this, I am now chuckling at the fact that this is an opinionated piece...so I guess...there really is no escaping opinions. 🤣

MAN SHALL NOT LIVE BY DAYDREAMING ALONE

As a child, I dreamt of things unimaginable. I mean, that's what dreaming is all about...right? I remember dreaming I was an astronaut, until the Challenger blew up. I remember watching the clouds shift as the day drift by...wondering in mind, which was Cloud 9...as I was always told they had different levels...and Cloud 10 was my aim, while using 9 as a foot rest. As we age, we still subject ourselves to daydreaming. However, follow those dreams, become a doer by committing yourself long term and never give up...no matter how many times you're put down. Get up, dust yourself off and live life to the fullest! Now, in my forties...I'm finally discovering thoughts of happiness and accomplishments along the way. I daydreamed a lot, but understood that dreaming it s not what makes us...it's the doing that seals the deal. #osmosisthoughtz

ENTITLED MUCH?!?!

I've come to learn that we live in a society of more entitlement, than entrepreneurship. We can't call them "Millenials"...they've earned the title of "6G" (yes the upgrade folks) the gimme, gimme, gimme, gimme, gimme generation. Hand out, lip poked out, smart attitude, roll the eyes, smack the lips, side eye and next roll...type generation. Their work is half hearted and they don't have a clue at how the world works as their invested time is within friends thoughts with dismissive thoughts/disrespect to  those who truly care for them. I remember as a child, when my parents addressed me, my response was "yes sir/ma'am, no sir/ma'am, please, thank you and you're welcome"...no matter what was asked, said of me...this is still a habit I have today! 👈🏿 My parents could tell you that this is true. Today's kids/young adult addresses elders with "yeah, naw, huh, what". They also "demand respect" and don't know what work is...and afraid to get their hands dirty. When I was in high school, I worked two jobs back to back daily, barely getting days off! If I had a daily off and someone needed me to cover their shift...I was there. I loved being responsible for myself and left home at 20. What happened to this generation? While I can agree it's on us as parents...no parent wants to see their child suffer, but at some point it's time they leave the nest, even if it means pushing them out...they'll have two choices...either they'll flap their wings and fly or fail with a nose dive to the ground. Grown ups, should not be growing pains! If you're living under your parents roof, because you're scared to face the world on your own...then it's time you own your life, stop with the disrespect and face adulthood. Period dot! #osmosisthoughtz

RIGHT 2 WRITE

Listen, life will throw us curve balls...therefore we must take the good with the bad...happiness with the sad and bounce back! When you feel the world judges w/o listening (vs hearing or not at all)...keep pushing and smile as the days go by. I've always been a firm believer in waiting/watching as time moves forward for revealations to happen. In life, some wish for karma, but I aspire to inspire by saying...never wish bad and always wish the best in success to those no matter the circumstances. Days will be hard, but you grow from mistakes and learn about yourself in the process. We exist for a reason and God knows the more we achieve in life...there will always be something/someone waiting to stunt our growth. Bottom line "growth has roots, but no ceiling"...there will be weeds, but it's how you prevail among those troubles to "be" who you are. Every morning when you look into the mirror...believe in yourself and never give up...even when the world closes its doors and takes away its welcome mat...create your path and continue to smile as joy always comes in the morning...it may not be the next morning, but it comes...even if we are long removed from a situation/happening. #osmosisthoughtz #goodvibes #right2write #opositive #beyourexistence #be

WRITING IS MY...

Therapy (and addiction)...I find myself lost in thought when I write down topics that cross my mind. For me, it takes me outside the box of weirdness and helps sort thought. We all have beautiful pictures locked away in the museum of our mind...where we fantasize, daydream and lose ourselves where no one knows us personally as we know ourselves. Funny thing is...those thoughts...may not be a topic to discuss with others and may be saved for someone with similar thinking. I blog a lot...sometimes I don't post everything as I may not finish getting thought to paper, due to writer's block...but lately there's been an uptick in my post as I begin to get comfortable discussing a lot of things that cross my mind or I may see from first to third person. It's difficult to get someone to listen these days as the only hear a message without complete thought by listening to words. Hopefully, everything I write will be in existence to help another 30...40...50 years and beyond. #osmosisthoughtz

WITHHOLDING S3X

When a married couple is not having sex, due to one withholding it from the other or treating sex as a carrot for obedience...what does one do? It's often something that happens in a relationship and causes more harm than help (honestly). Sex is a pleasure for both parties...if it's withheld due to a medical purpose...understood. However, when one does it out of spite, obedience or to impose their will...upon the other...then it becomes a problem. Sex is a form of communication (believe it or not), which spruces up/unlocks different barriers within our mind, body and soul. I've heard a spouse once say she only has sex with her significant other to keep him happy, which is totally odd/riDICKulous MOVE to me. We can be creative as we want and it's an opportunity to get to know each other on another level. The sexiness/boldness that you bring into the bedroom shows a difference with how we relate in the streets (yeeeahhhhh, freak in the sheets...😏 you know the rest). Some couples fail to realize this and feel that communication is built on speech alone...when in fact it's also how our bodies connect to keep our commitment strong. Here's the kicker...ask yourself, if withholding from your significant other...for the aforementioned reasons....what happens if I'm cheated on?!?!? Other questions (or guilt tripping) will surface such as did they really love me, since they cheated or found someone to take care of their needs? How could they do this to me?!?!? I'm not endorsing cheating, but where do you go when not getting that fulfillment? Trust, I know that it's wrong, but how do we get enjoyment without feeling/ being treated like a slave to someone else's desires...and they feel entitled enough to break you off without a mutual connection? Understand, sex is a two way street and is an important factor in communicating love between two people...and shouldn't be used to bait, harm or ward off someone who really wants that connection with you. After all, sex is another forum to communicate trust and if you fail in that aspect or prevent yourself from thinking outside the box...you may end up losing/have already lost what you thought you've had. #osmosisthoughtz

NO DELILAH

Ladies, a man needs to be shown rather than told that they are special to you. We hear the narratives about bad men and women needing to be loved, but sometimes we feel forgotten as we are emotionally built and have feelings too. Far to often, we may feel neglected or overwhelmed, but who is taking care of our needs if we're constantly challenged to maintain our bearings and be the backbone to our significant other. Love is a battlefield, but should never be one sided. We too tire of the games played and emotional roller coasters. We are strong, but it doesn't mean that we are willing to be treated as stepping stools. #osmosisthoughtz

ANGLES

Life seems to be based on angles. I mean, perception, thoughts, choices/options or opinions (same difference). There will always be an argument over whose right...wrong or indifferent. Like, religion...politics...or even the way we rear our children is based on subjectives or how each and every one of us thinks or feels. There's nothing wrong with differences, but we must be responsible/respectful in how we conduct ourselves around those with thought quite different than our own. When I address the aforementioned intro...it is my belief that life's angles are what we or others may perceive and immediately choose a side no matter our reason for doing so. We tend to become carbon copies of what the news/media says...society takes on this story and spit balls it to its liking, which generates a difference in opinion and we have war! Folks, listen...just be you...respect others and prevent the goat trails of gossip. When addressing differences...inquire about what you may not know and use it for growth. There also may be a point where you can be wrong and may learn why an individual is different than you are. #osmosisthoughtz

S3X

Embracing your nakedness
Caressing your sexiness
French kissing
Fondling
Orgasms
Of oral conversation
Mouth
To mouth
On our south
Jerking, licking,sucking, fingering
Pleasures
In treasures
Depth
From sofa, floor and stair steps
No penetration
As temptation
Invaded occupation
Curiosity spikes
Left to right
Explosive volcanoes...to smiles delight
One opportunity with you...reset our bodies right
Kiss my tattoos...slow
Follow
Outlines...head to toe
No regrets
Your body on mine...let's connect
Chemical exchange...orgasms to sweat
Sex...

Climax offset
Wet
Ready...willing
More than feeling
Between thighs
As temperature rise
Inside
Bouncing biorhythms
Venus...Mars
Calibrated stars
Decision
Body says yes...mind says no
Submission
Green light go
Pleasure chambers as rain
Drips from membrane
Soak n' wet...
Sex...

Talk dirty
Temple Shirley
I am Ceasar
In your worldly
Love it when you say hurt me...
Go deeper...or I think I love you
Don't speak it...just show me
Grope thighs, suck fingers...
As pheromones linger...
Demeanor
Nonverbal
I am your dealer...smoke me...herbal
Soak me...in your essence
So pleasant...
As we kiss, before we undress
Thoughts of foreplay...
Sex...
#osmosisthoughtz

LIFE IS FUNNY

Some folks tend to forget how much you help them and disregard/disrespect the relevance you have been to inspire their lives. Whether it's the utilities, food, love, protection, convenience to conversation etc., that you provide them...they will soon forget what you have done to make their lives comfortably, because they feel their path to life should be easy. One thing in mind is family/friends who borrow money, but think you owe it to them rather than giving back what they owe, which ultimately turns into a battle for what's rightfully yours...because their selfishness to progress their cause...to forget about yours is what's less important to them. Then they are mad and guilt trip you with..."I never should have asked you" or "you've never done anything for me" or "I was gonna ask someone else, but thought I'd give you the opportunity"...wait...whaaaa???!??! We now figure to press forward, because karma (we figure) will catch up to them...but does it? Guess it's something we will never see...but here's the kicker. Smile, press forward as life only remains empty for that individual...at some point in passing...life will catch up and they'll discover that life isn't the same without you. We may not see or know their karma...or get an apology for their antics. However, it's a price to pay upon discovery. Don't fight tooth and nail or be petty...continue living your life at a distance as their story unfolds. #osmosisthoughtz

MEMO 2018, SELF EMPOWERMENT

Let those who wish you unsuccess, see you at your best! Sometimes, we may feel that we do not have the support of others behind us and those same people love to see when we hit rock bottom. The key is to keep pushing and to remember the skies the limit! I'm not a perfect man (as if anyone is perfect), but I take note of those who think, feel or see less of me. I smile, remember who I am...even when it's hard and know I've given my best and feel unappreciated no matter what I've built or tried to achieve for those around me. Positivity should be the position we all should have, but it becomes a struggle when others do not value your same worth.👈🏿 (See what I've done there?) It's our conciousness that sways us...we want to be accepted for who we are, but we aren't allowed to identify who we are as others will always label us...as who they want us to be. Real talk...and thinking outside the box...we honestly have nothing to prove to anyone/ anybody...we are human and challenge ourselves to be better as we want to speak in silence (let the work show for itself), but our demons speak out loud as we want to be noticed for what people do not seem to recognize. I've got work to do in this department as I look to start compartmentalizing a lot of what has haunted me over the years...it only gets better with time as our web design in life is what we do from birth to death.