Monday, October 14, 2013

LET EM H8 CAUSE THEY CAN'T RELATE!!!

So I was talking w/ my daughter after school today...I have further proof that adults learn through the influence of those that God surrounds us with. Alanna has been having issues with a little boy who feels the need to attract attention to himself by picking fights w/ her. I told her to ignore him and understand that he isn't worth your time...and if he continues to talk about you to walk away (maybe he likes you) and that there's no reason to be angry over his actions if you know what he says about you isn't true. I stopped talking, looked in my rearview...smiled...and thanked God for her...overall it was God's way of telling me that the situation I've been going through with a similar individual as an adult...has made me angry...but as a father talking to my daughter about her situation and comparing it to this individuals tactics has elevated my mentality. People will always find a way to talk bad...degrade...undermine...and slander your name...sometimes they even do things that make you wanna flex your muscles and go Popeye, but the evil inside of them is something personal that they have to deal with. I will continue to ask God to bless this individual and hopefully they make peace with themselves. In my heart...I know they really don't hate me, but they idolize the things I do and wish they could fit my shoes and walk miles in them. I am done listening to this individual...and drawing negative energy from the malicious tactics they have used to bait the "old me" into existence...I am done asking myself and others why this individual has it out for me...I have never feared them and will not start today...tomorrow...or years from now. I've smiled at their ignorance and it's time to put their issues behind me and move forward. My Grandma Bertha told me as a kid after I got into a fight at school to walk away...because Jesus Christ still carried his cross even though people spit at him...threw rocks...and slandered his name...It's funny how folks do not realize that even though they have tried tactics to test me...they have continued getting the same level of help from me that everyone else has received, but the evil they hold against me will continue to devour their soul. As my mom would say to me...misery loves company...and when it rains it pours! I refuse to accompany their misery...and when storms arise in their life...I can still be their to lend them an umbrella, but the choice is theirs to open it or not. Thank you Lord for blessing me with a daughter who teaches me to live more day by day. Live...love...laugh...and play hard Facebookers...your destination in life is capitalized through the existence of your capabilities of grasping life...owning and dominating it!



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